Kwaheri Kenya, but not forever

Yesterday I ate my last Kenyan fish fry with ugali and sukuma wiki, which nearly left me crying over my plate. I am already telling myself I’ll come back and bring my husband and hopefully family so that they can also appreciate this beautiful place. I am so grateful for the opportunity to work and live here for a bit, and I have such deep respect for colleagues that continue to advocate for a world where no woman or girl ever dies from unsafe abortion- a world where women can decide if and when to have children, and access the resources needed to raise them in a healthy and supportive environment. We can’t know whether this might be a reality in our lifetime, but the deep transformations of the community members, providers, and decision-makers that the Ipas Africa Alliance works with fills me with optimism.

Last week I had the chance to present to Ipas staff on some of the work I’ve been privileged to do while here. Though I primarily sought to collect and organize feedback from community health volunteers, providers, youth champions and leaders of community-based organizations on how Ipas can improve its’ work to refer young women for contraception, I quickly realized the positive impact that these efforts are having on the people implementing the program themselves.- people like Silvester, from community organization Mitume Mantix, and Nerrie, a Youth Champion at Maseno University. They are the


“If I am a man, when my girlfriend tells me she wants to go for contraceptives, it’s high time for me to stop thinking she’s being unfaithful, or that she’s being promiscuous. Let us support them. I tell them (young men), ‘If you are in form one and your girlfriend is in form two, and if by bad luck you impregnate this girl, you won’t be at peace, because maybe you’ll be arrested, maybe you’ll be taken to court for these things, or rather maybe you will run away from your place, your home, so you’ll also be affecting your education… If you feel you are in an in-love relationship, support her! Go for the contraceptives, and see her through her education, so that if you meet somewhere in the future, you can enjoy your relationship.’ “ – Silvester, of CBO Mitume Mantix, an Ipas community partner

Nerrie_edited“The project has changed me in lots and lots of ways. It has provided me with a platform to develop my leadership skills and to also empower others on issues dealing with their sexual and reproductive health. Implementing Ipas’ Choice for Change project and working with the Youth Champions across Maseno University has been very fulfilling and a good learning experience regarding challenges faced by the youth on matters regarding their reproductive health. Ipas has taken me places I would have never dreamed of and provided me with invaluable experience that I wouldn’t have stumbled across on a normal day.” – Nerrie, Youth Champion with Ipas’ Choice for Change program, which seeks to increase young women’s access to contraceptives.

These and many more agents of change are the hopeful vision for a more just world that we must all invest in. For every person who has told me that Kenya has a long way to go regarding sexual and reproductive rights, I fully believe that Kenya is already well into that journey, with Ipas staff and those they work with leading the way.

As I think about arriving back home, I am filled with excitement to see family and friends, but a part of me will always remain in Kenya. It’s been one of the honors of my life to be here. Thank you, Ipas and thank you to the Ipas Liz Maguire Fellowship for Young Leaders for this incredible opportunity.


Meet some of the amazing young people working to improve sexual and reproductive health on college campuses in Western Kenya

The highlight of this week was co-facilitating focus groups with Youth Champions in charge of implementing the Ipas Africa Alliance’s Choice for Change (C4C) project at two universities in Eastern Kenya on what resources they think young people need to care for their sexual and reproductive health and live their best lives. This was an activity to inform a webage that the Alliance is designing, which will link to their Nimechanuka Facebook and Twitter feeds (Nimechanuka, I am told, means “I am enlightened/empowered” in Kiswahili).

Spending time with these awesome young people reminded me of how much I miss working directly with youth, how much I love sex ed, and how full of hope and amazing ideas so many of them are. There were also several hilarious moments like when we we talked about the fear that sooo many young people have that the natural size and shape of their genitalia are abnormal. This is apparently a global concern for young folks since the youth I worked with in North Carolina and Georgia were equally worried. ALL OF YA’ PARTS ARE NORMAL. lol We had a good laugh.

After the focus groups were over, I had the honor of sitting down with two of the brilliant Youth Champions one-on-one to talk about their work to refer young women on their campuses for contraception. They had a lot to say about the work and what motivates them, and how the training and support they’ve received from the Ipas Africa Alliance has changed the way they view themselves and the importance of sexual and reproductive health and rights. They’ve generously given me permission to share their feedback and photos.

Meet Morra*. Don’t let her small stature fool you- she’s is on fire for reproductive health and rights! She’s also got great style, so we clearly hit it off! 🙂 Here’s what she had to say about her work with Ipas during our interview this week:

Moraa Youth Champion
Morra is a junior at Maseno University, majoring in Medical Biotechnology. She hopes to conduct research that will cure diseases. For now, she’s leads efforts to fulfill students’ right to reproductive health information and services.

“They (other young women) tell me they admire my confidence and I tell them they too need to be confident. It’s important in our society where the feminine gender is considered inferior.”

What impact has the Choice for Change (C4C) program had on young people in your community?

“Through this program, youth have been able to learn facts about contraceptives. You know there’s been so much fiction and in fact, (before) if you ask a lady why she can’t go for contraceptives, people surely will tell you that, “You know, I would grow fat, I would grow thin, I would lose my shape.” But now… they are able to get the facts on importance and effects of contraceptives. And they have been able to access contraceptives in the right place from the health practitioners… They’re first advised by the health practitioner, they’re given a variety (of options) so you make a decision, an informed decision.”

What has your experience been like working with Ipas to implement C4C?

“When I first started this I was green. But you see I have gained a lot of information. Initially I was afraid of talking about contraceptives, but now I’m courageous. I can teach people. In fact, I have really gained knowledge. I have also been able to convince some other people. I have advised them on the right way to make informed decisions.”

How has the program changed you?

“Initially, I wouldn’t advise somebody to go for contraception. The only thing I knew was you would bleed. But now I know it is not that bleeding like I thought. That bleeding is just for a short time before the body gets to be compatible with the new substance that has been introduced into the body. So it changed by perception about contraceptives and in that way, I’ve also helped change other people’s perceptions who thought the same as me. They (other young women) tell me they admire my confidence and I tell them they too need to be confident. It’s important in our society where the feminine gender is considered inferior.”

What motivates you do refer other young people for contraception?

“I was born out of wedlock. Because one, my mom wasn’t informed about contraceptives… She was the only bread winner. She told me my father left before I was born. So, at least I can help a few.”

“There’s (also) a number of drop outs on my (campus)…. I just want to reach out to any people so that they can make informed decisions. Prevent the unplanned pregnancies, the STIs, the HIV, and children who are born out of wedlock.”

How do you feel when you refer other young people for contraception?

“The feeling is incredible. I just can’t get a suitable word. But it makes me smile knowing that I have achieved my objectives (sensitization and referral). Helping the youth, especially ladies, make informed choices is just my happiness.”

If only we were all this wise in college! Can we please give this woman a standing ovation? ❤

The other young person I had the honor of talking to this week was Cleophas. Here’s a photo of him breaking down the importance of safe sex and contraception for his peers during the focus group,* and what he had to say about his work with Ipas:

Cleophas is a senior at Jaramogi Oginga Odinga University of Science and Technology (JOOUST) studying public health and serving his fellow students with compassionate ear as well as reproductive health information and referrals.

“I’ve had the chance to change the lives of those other innocent students, because we have had cases of students who are procuring unsafe abortion before, but now they are able to access contraceptives so that they do not reach to that stage of unsafe abortion.”

Tell me about your work with the Ipas Choice for Change (C4C) program.

“What I do normally, I reach out to students. I attend to so many students. I do counseling, peer education…. I also do referrals to the link students to health centers that Ipas is working with. So these are just the kind of groups we are referring students to. I also do a lot of phone calls to attend to students. I do one-on-one chats. We do chats on social media. At times I even stay awake, like, throughout the night because students just keep on asking me questions.”

How confident do you feel answering the questions students ask?

“At first I didn’t feel that confident because my experience with Ipas has been gradual. It has not been so immediate that way, because the research, at first I was a bit naïve talking about matters concerning sexuality, but through the training, capacity building, networking and advocacy trainings that we were taken through, I was able to gain that confidence and I’m able to counsel and offer guidance.”

What has your experience been like working with Ipas to implement C4C?

“It has been extremely positive working for C4C as a champion, I am reaching (out) to other students and changing even my life as an individual… I know much on contraceptives and I’ve had the chance to change the lives of those other innocent students, because we have had cases of students who are procuring unsafe abortion before, but now they are able to access contraceptives so that they do not reach the stage of unsafe abortion.”

How beneficial has C4C been to your community?

“It has been extremely beneficial because since the time I came here the lives has just changed. People have just changed with Ipas…When I came here back in 2014, there was a lot of pregnant women in the community. People even branded the university… like a maternity (ward)… So, you know, that time so many students were pregnant but within a short while this pregnancy just disappears. So, it never disappeared in a positive way, you know in a good way, but people are procuring unsafe abortion. But now through the information Ipas has impacted students, and you know even when I walk along the corridors of JOOUST, there is a name a lot of students have branded me, they do call me “Ipas.” Because when they see me they see hope… When they see me, they see a solution to reproductive health (problems).”

Aren’t they AMAZING?! If there’s hope for the world, it rests on our willingness to invest in youth like Morra and Cleophas.

*Both Morra and Cleophas gave written permission to be interviewed and for their photos and names to be shared.

Finding the Way Forward- Hope for improving Youth Sexual and Reproductive Health Globally

Have your heart and mind ever been so full that you find yourself expending all of your energy on processing thoughts and feelings? That’s where I’ve been the past few days. Full of admiration for the work of my Ipas Africa Alliance colleagues and their beautiful country.

During the second half of last week, I attended a meeting where Ministry of Education (MOE) officials and administrators met with Choice for Change (C4C) program staff (see my last post for a description of that program). The purpose of the meeting was to bring MOE staff up to date on statistics regarding youth sexual and reproductive health (SRH) nationally and in their county, as well as the basics of the C4C program, with the hope that they will encourage teaching staff to refer youth for services as needed. This is essential, as Alliance colleagues explained that some teachers have discouraged their students from accessing contraception through the program due to the stigma around adolescents and sexual activity.

The Africa Alliance’s Health Systems Advisor, Martha Kaguara, began the meeting by asking MOE staff to share their experiences with challenges in youth SRH. The stories they shared were difficult to hear, ranging from a young girl giving birth in a latrine to the expulsion of pregnant youth from school and the lack of consequences for the young men who got them pregnant, and even instances of sexual abuse perpetrated by teachers themselves (teachers have considerable power in many areas of the country, and some abuse this power).

There were several comments that were very stigmatizing toward youth SRH, especially toward girls. But there was also a real desire in the room to find a way to address these issues. When one participant deemed the young woman who gave birth in the latrine as “negligent” other MOE staff immediately responded, essentially stating that it is the community who is negligent when youth are denied access to the information, support and the tools to prevent pregnancy. Martha responded to these heartbreaking stories with a call for action, “Are we all seeing these cases? Are they there? What are we going to do about it? It is not about talking. It must be about the way forward. There were many head nods among attendees.

The way MOE staff became increasingly engaged with the topic throughout the day, and their excitement around collective action to improve the lives of youth in their communities were inspiring. While some for their comments reminded me of the global need to sensitize adults to become true allies, rather than judge and jury when it comes to youth SRH, I was impressed by the patience with which Martha and Moses Kidi, the Africa Alliance Youth Advisor, worked to build compassion for youth facing inadequate SRH information and resources, converting those who may have been foes to allies in this work. It is a privilege to witness this process and learn from it.

One moment that really stuck with me was the challenge to the audience made by Moses regarding our collective responsibility to link youth to services: “There are those of us who have killed clients, sending them away. You don’t know what happened to that girl. Did she seek an unsafe abortion? Did she die? We are all responsible.” The weight of that statement was palpable.

Later, he shared with me how this is a major issue that the Alliance has worked to address within health facilities as well. Facilities may turn away very sick women, and especially those suspected of having induced an abortion, as high rates of maternal death within the facility will cause them to look poorly when mortality audits are conducted by the government. Maternal death due to abortion is not captured in official data, though studies indicate incomplete abortions account for over one-third of gynaecological admissions and unsafe abortion is responsible for approximately 13% of maternal deaths in Kenya (Lema et al, 1996). In Africa- and all over the world, abortion is common. On the continent, over six million abortions are estimated to have occurred in the year 2008, with two million occurring in East Africa alone (World Health Organization, 2011; Singh, S., 2006).

As I reflect on this week, I am in awe of the commitment of my colleagues working on C4C and their determination to ensure every person has access the information and resources to prevent unintended pregnancies. I have been thinking a lot about how, although some issues, like stigma directed at pregnant youth, are global challenges, others are a direct result of oppressive forces throughout history, and the intersection of various forms of oppression. For instance, it seems grossly unjust that, to varying degrees across the globe, women of color, and particularly young black women, are faced with the highest rates of unmet need for contraception, unintended pregnancy and maternal death, including death from unsafe abortion. In Kenya, which gained its’ independence from Britain in 1963 only after much bloodshed, the maternal mortality ratio is about 363 deaths per 100,000 live births (Kenyan Demographic Health Survey, 2015). Many of these deaths are among young women, as are many of those caused by a lack of access to safe abortion. While the U.S. maternal mortality rate is much lower at 28 deaths per 100,000 live births, this rate has risen alarmingly in recent years, and black women in my country are three to four times (or in some states like Louisiana, even five times) more likely than white women to die within one year of giving birth (The Root, 2016). This is not just a matter of health, but also a matter of human rights- and specifically, reproductive rights, as the United Nations and other international organizations have pointed out (UN News Centre, 2015; WHO, 2012).

While women and girls of all colors live with the burden of various types of harm caused by the patriarchy, even if they might choose to deny this reality, far too many women of color are also burdened with the ongoing effects of colonialism and white supremacy. Some are also harmed by homophobia, transphobia and ableism. How can we, as a global SRH and rights movement do a better job of recognizing and pushing back against this- of helping to right these historic wrongs? I think one step is stating them aloud and remaining cognizant of the root causes of these injustices as we engage in this work. All women are created equal, but they are not treated as such by societies. Further, we must ensure that those leading SRH efforts like those of the Ipas Africa Alliance are representative of the communities they seek to influence, and that they genuinely seek to gain the perspectives and direction of the young people they wish to benefit.

If we aim to ensure every person has access to the tools to prevent pregnancy and end a pregnancy safely, we must admit this reality. It must be about the way forward for youth- and for all of us.

Youth SRH Kenya